It makes me sick to see things like this happen. I have spent my entire adult life in public service and I love what I do. I don't know what started the relationship between him and this kid but HE should have known better. She is 14. Ignorance of age is not a defense. It just seems that more and more, firefighters, police officers and EMS personnel are taking a hit for a select few idiots. This guy was 19 or 20 when he did what he did and Luke Stidham was 36. What are they thinking? Thinking with the wrong end. I see young girls everyday that, one do not look their age and 2, dont dress their age. I blame the parents of this girl as much as the 2 guys sitting in jail. If the parents were more involved and kept her on a shorter leash, this would not have happened. The really sad part is all the victims left in the wake from all 3 families.