Well that's lovely that you have 4 "perfect" children. I, nor anyone in my family to date has add/adhd but I can attest that this is a serious disorder. I have a friend who has 3 children afflicted and God bless her that she has not been sent to the asylum herself. One of her children is in such bad shape she had to send him away for the proper help he needs to live a functional life. He will never have the opportunities that we have. And my friend will never be the same because she is living every mothers worst nightmare. She would never send her child away willingly trust that. I love how everyone has an opinion but they don't have a phd to go with it.