I am glad that your kids are just fine. I thank God that I am taking more time and more responsibility for my children who both have ADHD. I am NOT a slack off parent. I (and other parents that have children with ADHD) spend even more time to disipline and teach our children right from wrong and what is expected of them. Their brains don't function the same way that normal kids do and therefore it takes more parenting skills to raise these children to be everything they are truly capable of being.