A brain that is "female" does not negate the "physical package configuration." You can't pretend that the genitalia do not exist, and simply say, "Oh, it's girl!"
Discussing Edward's behavior is not a matter of speaking ill of the dead, but re-stating what was clearly established in the trials of his murderers. Edward was deceptive, dishonest, and engaged in extremely dangerous behavior. Add drugs and alcohol, and it proved a deadly mixture.
Elucidation II