okay, let me see if I dig what you're saying. If you don't get caught, then it's not a crime ... Okay, since 95% of all sex offenses take place in the home of the victim then it's okay by you if "uncle Charlie" rapes your daughter and has her so scared that she ain't gonna tell no one - she ain't gonna snitch out "good o; uncle Charlie" --- is that really what you just said, if no one tells and he don't get caught then it ain't a crime??? I think that's what I read you saying ...