Boy oh boy, can I ever related to this poor guy! I'm a mother who's also dealing with a vindictive ex like this. I haven't seen my son in three years and two months. Once the Family courts bled me of my home and $30,000.00 to teach me how the system really works, I had no choice but to go pro se and confusing is not the only word for it. I can think of many words to associate with this story. Corruption, unjust, cash cow, cruel... and those are the really nice words! Something needs to be done about this. It's our children who are suffering the most and nobody seems to care in the Family Court system.