I have to ask you didnt this person sign the same papers that the mother in question did? Why do you not hold this Grandparent accountable for the same obligatons as you do this young mother? Ill also ask you too if you support this war and want to defend this pointless situation then you should forsake your daily activity with your friends and family, let go of your valuable internet time and go enlist. You go and leave this lady alone..... The ARMY let her go so they didnt really need her to begin with.