I hear ya, Know where you're coming from. Would've probably made the same comment if it was someone elses story. I'm not one to blow things out of proportion or try to find blame somewhere else for my own ploblems. It's not me. I want to say that my son is not bad, I know difficult children and they require more patience and usually it's obvious that there are parenting issues at fault. But this just isn't one of those cases.