I am sorry for thie older gentlemen and I know that it was more than likely hard for him to understand really what was going on. I have the same type of thing happen with my family, People always calling wanted them to send money for this and that and they can get free loans, There are no such thing as a free loan,,, but as kids we have to step in and I question did the kids try to step in at the being of this when the contract was drawn and the money was givin out? I know the gentleman don't want this done. but you sign and took the money. I know one report said that he would give the money back but there still is a sign contract. and the ones that are TV crying and bring the children on TV. How much time have you really spend with your father, grandfather, do you talk to them once week or go sit with him. Or was this just a money thing?