" I got my home loan reduced my 300 bucks per month through the HSAP plan..... I got my student loan reduced by 200 bucks per month and will get them all forgiven in 8 years...."
So in other words, you are happy you got to reneg on agreements YOU previously agreed to and signed, and are grateful that President Obama encourages and blesses your irresponsible lifestyle, right?
Why do you need help at all?