"my father died he had spent my inheritance by just staying alive for a little over a year." Wow, what a great kid you where. My Father is 80 and healthy, he is also quite well off. I would rather see him live and spend the entire fortune on himself (either to stay alive or travel) than have it for myself. He has a living will that I will honor when the time comes. Your Fathers money was HIS. I hope you have greedy kids that treat your money just like you treated your Fathers..... Heck, let him die so WE GET HIS MONEY. Disgusting.