Take in account you are not GOD!!!!!!!!!!! Take in account both are someone love ones. Take in account no one raised him to respect human life. Take in account your not perfect rather you believe it or not.Take in account i know there are things that you have made bad choices on.Take in account that we all have things we could have made better choices with. The only thing that is sad is that you read about him but he does not know the wrong you have done at his age. You might have not killed someone but you have did something that you are not proud of.BE Honest.