I completely disagree with this statement. 1) Do you really know of any parent who has been able to completely control their kid? Parent's can teach all they want, but kids and are going to do what kids are going to do. 2) No blame should be placed on anyone, because the truth is, none of us know anything about this student, the student's parents, or the students past. Before we go around labeling and making judgments, keep in mind that we have no clue where this student came from and what they have been through in their lifetime.