If you want everyone to stop playing the blame game then your family needs to stop blaming Caleb for everything and look at the facts. Ricky was a good man and it is a tragedy all around, for BOTH families. Caleb is trying to keep all the emotional stress on the Carroll's to a minimum but that not good enough. All Daphne wants to do is keep it stirred up and run his name in the ground. She is the one that is LARGE and IN CHARGE of the blame game.