Has someone that you love ever been MURDERED by someone? Obviously not from your commentary. Again, WRONG is WRONG, Caleb took a life! You're right on one thing - it is tragic for both families. The point you're missing is that Caleb is RESPONSIBLE for it. Emotional stress to a minimum? You make it sound as if we're crying over spilled milk...and by the way, it's not just the Carroll family that is outraged about what happened. If anyone is LARGE and in CHARGE it was Caleb, he's the one who fired the GUN!