You are right I don't know either person. If you read my post again. You will see in the last line. I saying a prayer for both familes. It is a lost to both familes. Most of the time when you hear these stories. There is always a reason for why a person done something. They always try to blame someone or something else. Instead of themselves. that is what I meant by it. And the bottom line is some one is dead and someone is in the hospital. lost all the way around.