I agree on your points BUT, why would he/she WANT to be somewhere that doesn't except or want he/she there? I wouldn't want to be there, why cause the stress for others or yourself? A club is suppose to be fun and relaxing, a place to socialize with friends and acquaintances. This wont happen so why bother making a big deal out of it. Get over it and move on to another place where you are appreciated.
He/she choose this lifestyle change, the people at the club did not.
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