everyone should be ashame, i was reading everything that everyone of you had to say, stop pointing fingers and try to post prayers and encouragement for the Children that has lose their mother. Each and every one of us make the wrong choice in life and if you say you never do you are lieing. You are not god and you are not perfect. We make mistakes every day. These Children need our prayers and our love. Let them all rest they are gone, I surly don't want to set and the feet of Jesus and be ask why did you judge my children. That's my job. saith Jesus!