I assume the word "discipline" is the word that you are searching for here, but discipline really has nothing to do with the matter at hand. Wars are fought because of differences, fist fights have happened from the beginning of time to settle differences. It is part of growing up and should be considered as such as long as weapons do not come into play. I just see no reason for the intrusion of the law into a personal situation that resulted in no warrants from the participants. Why does the "law" have to intrude into every facet of our lives? And worse yet, why do some think this type of control is a good thing?