Yeah, maybe he had been arrested. Maybe he was hanging out with the wrong crowd. Have you ever? Has anyone in your family? I bet so.
I have. He may have not been "good" in your eyes...but he was a son, he was a friend, he loved and was loved by someone. My husband coached him when he was a little fellow, and there is good in all of us. You have to find it.
I am very sorry to hear about this. It made me cry and it should shame you to speak that way to this family who is suffering a loss.