I am first cousin to Betty Pace.I loved Betty and her husband "Bill" from childhood. She was one of those adults that really understood kids and you could talk to her, tell her anything and she would never tell. After becoming an adult I learned to love her for adult reasons. She was a loving and giving person never too tired or busy to lend a helping hand or to listen to your problem. She will be missed by all that knew her. I am not here to judge anyone that is God's place not mine. I am sure that when Jesse realizes what he has done, he will be in more pain than I could ever put him in. I do know what he did will cause everyone that knew Betty pain but Jesse will be in more pain than any of us. I have had to forgive the person that killed my son and I am not sure who that was. I still forgive them because that is the only way I could find peace. Betty leaves behind many friends and family members that will remember her with love. Pray for all her friends and family members that they can forgive Jesse and move on as Betty would want them to.