Why is it shameful to ask if you don't know the answer to a question?

There really is no need to be nasty to me. I wasn't attacking the family or trying to put them down in any way. I made that very clear in my post. Do you have a reading comprehension problem? It sounds to me like you jumped to a lot of conclusions that weren't in my post. I was simply trying to understand why things were being done a certain way and was hoping to get some clarification. That's all.

If anything is shameful, it's your attitude.