Well, Sherry, just like you I have an "opinion" and this is an open forum that is not restricted to "family" only with inside information. The fact is we do not live in Tabor City and do not want some teenager who's having a lovers quarrel with his much older sugar daddy shooting off a gun in an apartment complex. Your "cousin" placed a lot people in danger. He has demonstrated that he has no self-control. He is dangerous. So, no I will not shut my mouth.