Sounds like a relative responding to the criticism. Perhaps you would be better to sit down with him and talk about his actions. Yes you are right. All of us need to be in prayer for all involved in this situation. But these are choices that he has made and he is reaping the consequences of those choices. He hasn't shown any inclination to make changes.
Only those truly involved know the true story, but from what we see and hear, it looks like "Frog" which by the way is a stupid name anyway, and his pals have had a sugar daddy for too long and the source is drying up so they are reacting to it. They might get a little more sympathy from the public if they would come clean and tell the story and then attempt to clean their acts up. Until they do, unfortunately, right or wrong, they are being held up to public ridicule.
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