Reading this as well as all of the comments left behind just makes me want to reach out to people that are unable to take themselves out of the picture and think of others instead. I grew up with Mr. Tony's oldest niece and even though I did not have the pleasure in meeting him or at least get to experience the love and kindness he shared for others I know that he didn't want anyone to feel the hate that some of you are feeling towards each other. Everyone has directed their attention to one of the guests comments but what are we changing? Mr. Tony as you rest in peace, know that you are and will be missed for time to come. Thank you for setting a good example of giving of yourself unselfishly. I pray that all of the family be comforted by the thought of him resting peacefully on the other side.