Anne Guedes, I feel you have it wrong. Everyone should be listening to God for a change and we might get some actual answers and understanding of events that take place in our lives! Instead we are to busy asking God "Why" and blamming him... Just remember everything happens for a reason, although we may not understand it, it does! Not to say in this case, but in some cases, it takes a death or something serious to happen to us, in order to turn us around and facing back to God. It is like the saying goes... "Let Go and Let God!"