I know and love this family. I love Ethan and his parents. I love his Grandparents,his Great Grandparents, as well as his Great Great Grandmother. Ethan was loved by all. I love his cousins and his aunts and uncles. I have known this family for many years, as they brought myself and my family into their loving homes and treated my family as a part of theirs. They are very warm, loving, caring, compassionate people, who reach out to others and share the love of God that lives within their hearts. The so called live in boyfriend, as you described him, is the Mother's fiancé and is a caring, loving, wonderful man and father. He loved Ethan as his own and his heart is broken. Don't try to paint him in a bad light, because you are very mistaken! They are a family. This was a tragic, tragic accident!!! It is no ones fault!!! Instead of trying to blame someone, prayer would be more productive and beneficial.