OMG. how can you be so damn insensitive. The loss of a child whether it was stillborn or a miscarriage is difficult for the parents. they are grieving and just wanted to bury their child and if you didnt know most people who experience an early loss have a d&c where the fetus is thrown out or do so naturally at homes and then the tissues are flushed out.. ER or docs in America do not check into miscarriage causes unless and until the lady has had 3 miscarriages. till then, they just inform everyone it has happened and you have to deal with it!!!!