Just want you to know ma'am that you are a special kind of lady. The fact that you can show compassion for these men says alot about you, and don't let people tell you anything different. You will be criticized for it, but be true to yourself. You would have made your husband so proud.
As for the two, I hope that they get some measure of justice for taking your husband. We reap what we sow and they have consequences to face.
Even though your husband can't hear the words, I thank him for serving. He has left a great legacy.
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