While I understand your frustration about negative comments on this forum, the fact is that this IS a public forum where anyone can post any thoughts, negative or positive, on a posted article. If the family doesn't want to see nagative things on this site, they should look somewhere else for comfort.

People are going to post what they want, when they want; and there's no stopping them. Families would be better off talking to other family members, church families, and friends, if they want positve feedback. None of these type forums are know for happy, touchy-feelie type postings. It's just a simple fact.