Just because your an older gentleman and just because you have served our country 4 years doesn't give you the knowledge to dismiss this! For all that matters my husband has served our country 18 years almost 19 and I have been with him for a fair amount of that time. That doesn't make me knowledgeable however I do have a Criminal Justice/Psychology degree that does give me knowledge and the ability to know and see that things like this DO HAPPEN it isn't playing doctor ugh!