u neeed 2 keep bad comments to your self hes only 22 so dot say comments thats gonna make family members feel bad this is his cousion raphel and actually if he lost control then he coudnlt have did it on purpose i understand u wen u said he was in the wrong doinq but then again u need 2 kepp all selfish coimments 2 ur self if it were you family mate witht he same problem you wouldnt be sayinq that so think about that its the same matter.:)