FYI -- why would you leave a child with a convicted felon? Let's search Mr. Murray's on NC offender website (part of NC Dept. of Corrections):

ROBBERY W/DANGEROUS WEAPON
ASSAULT ON OFFICER/ST EMPLOYEE
DRIV LICENSE REVOKED
POSSESS SCHEDULE VI
POSSESS WWITH INTENT TO SELL, SCHEDULE II
SPEED ELUDE ARREST

To those you say "don't judge" it looks like the Judge has already heard this case -- and the verdict is that Murray is drug dealing thug.