So Father's are the foundation of a home your Honor? I guess that's why you ruled that I could only see my child every other weekend and for a whole 2 weeks sometime during year. Could you not have granted a joint custody? According to NC law, you could have. Now I have a kid growing up in the hood that has attended substandard schools (Williston and New Hanover) when he could have gone to Topsail. Way to go!