I would love a United States where ALL people were devout, practicing Christians who were abstinent until their marriage nights and that there was no divorce. I would love a world where teenagers didn't have the lovely example on MTV of 16 and Pregnant and too dumb to find a clinic or adoptive family rather than shame their families on national television.
We are going to pay one way or the other. The Pill is 97% reliable in preventing pregnancy when used correctly. This means you take the PILL EVERY DAY AT THE SAME HOUR NO MATTER WHAT and still, 3 women out of every 100 will have an unwanted pregnancy. Think about the teens you know (who shouldn't be having sex anyway) and their responsible behavior. So if the New Hanover County school district has 1000 young female students having sex, and every single one of them was careful and used the PILL, 30 would still become pregnant. Condom numbers are worse. 84% out of every 100 won't get pregnant when used correctly which means 16 out of every 100 girls/women WILL get pregnant. Take those hypothetical boys and men having regular sex with those same hypothetical 1000 girls using a condom every single time CORRECTLY, and 160 will become fathers in one year. That's some lousy chances, folks.
A lot of religious and/or conservative middle and upper class people suddenly aren't so religious when they encourage their daughters and sons to abort the result of those lousy odds rather than mess up and derail their lives with an unwanted child interrupting her education and him forced to pay child support before he's even finished college. 54% of women and girls seeking abortions claim to be evangelical. What does this tell us? We're doing a lousy job in our homes and churches and yet we expect the poor and ignorant and uneducated to make better choices? Those of us who haven't had to deal with this have been lucky.
The IUD IS VERY EXPENSIVE but more effective over a FIVE YEAR PERIOD. That is FIVE YEARS the taxpayer is FREE from having that one woman who cannot take the Pill for medical reasons (high blood pressure or heart irregularities) or an "irresponsible in taking the Pill daily" woman or teen creating more wards of the state. That $1000 prorated over five years is cheap versus our hospital having to provide "indigent" prenatal, birth, and pediatric care for that youngster and later our school system having yet another poorly parented child disrupting our classrooms.
We tried sterilizing and that was considered morally repugnant. We tried funding the Pill and condoms and we see how well that's worked out. We stopped public funding of abortions. These resulting babies do NOT get put up for adoption. Many are born addicted to drugs. Many are premature with later educational problems. Grandmothers end up raising many of them after the state intervenes or they end up in the foster care system shuttled from one home to another. They end up with emotional and behavioral problems...less likely to be able to read and function in civilized society and more likely to end up in the correctional system.
That's the end result whatever your political, moral, and spiritual persuasion. Please think on that, Sirs.
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