I am so sorry for you and your families lose. Please don't let the opinions of a few of Wilmington 's loud mouth busy bodies spoil your opinion of our town. Some people just have nothing better to do than voice their opinions without stepping back and seeing the tragic end to a young life of a hero and how their words hurt. Your family will be in my prayers. RIP JOHN - I hope they recover him soon so that you can have some sort of closure to this tragedy.