You don't know me well enough to call me a bigot.

As for gays and lesbians, they have the same right I do to get married. There's no discrimination there. I just have to marry someone of the opposite sex.

If I choose to not be married, I can, by will or contract, pass on any or all of my property to whomever I choose. If I have a dependent living with me, I can provide health care coverage for that dependent. If I am afraid of another, with provable cause, I can get a protection order against them.

I just wouldn't be married. That term applies, as the law of the land now states, as approved by an overwhelming majority of those who cared, only to a man and woman.

Learn to deal with it or leave. That is your right.