When a person starts a sentence with"I mean no disrepect by this" disrespect is exactly what they mean. Why not such as show of love for a fallen officer who put his personel life on hold to help someone else solve there own problems and lost his life while trying to assist that person! This is the way that him and his family wanted his funeral. You have no right to critique the way a family puts there own to rest. You'll have your own one day to critique. May GOD bless you!