I don't know this person, not related, but feel very sorry for the family and what they are going through. I know this young girl certainly did not intend for this to happen, she will have enough grief to deal with for the rest of her life. It is NOT ok to voice negative comments, I'm sure you have just as many in your family that make mistakes too, and probably yourself. We should send Love to this family in need, not make them feel worse.
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