I am sorry for the loss that this family is going through. If you are going to allow your underaged kids to drink; do it at home and take the keys!! Don't drink with them and then decide that they are the sober ones and let them drive!!!! I am speaking from experience. I have allowed my kids to have their fun growing up, but I took the keys when the drinking started. I have also been the stupid one on the other end. I am so sorry that she lost her father and that is something she will have to live with everyday; I am just glad no one else was involved.