Ialways talked to my kids about sex.My daughter got involved with a young man older than her and at 17 had her first child.I took her to get birthcontrol,but later found out she was skipping pills!She got pregnant again at20.I love my grandchildren,but my daughter & her boyfriend still have alot of growing up to do!They are always struggling financially.I feel for other parents that have had to face this issue.You can talk about the birds & the bees,but if they are not responsible for their actions and do not take precautions ,I blame both of them.Parents like me talked to their kids,but one did not listen.Teens need to realize the expense that comes with a child!