I, and other Christians, can love you and still be intollerant of your, sinful, disgusting and intollerable actions. Jesus had many more commandments, and teachings, than the one that you quote in order to elicit acceptance from the majority (in North Carolina) who are intolerant of your lifestyle, all the while, loving you as commanded. Because the church speaks the truth, does not make it a bully anymore than you are a bully when you tell your child that certain behaviors are wrong, and will not be tolerated. You still love your child, but do not tolerate his / her behaviors.
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