Lady, I know that your conscience is eating away at you!!!!!!!! This reminds me of the movie "Bastard Out of Carolina". This is disgusting...how could a real mother side with a man over her own child...you should at least look into the accusations/ check on your child. I know that there have been a few cases where the child has lied. I don't care how old my children are...I will always ask if everything is okay. Teach your children(boy or girl)from day one that no one should touch their private parts inappropriately (explain what that means to them). Evidentally mom stopped helping her child wash. I believe she would have detected a problem long ago or maybe she denied what she saw and allowed the abuse to continue. Parents wake up...nobody is excluded from commiting this type of crime these days. (uncles, aunts, cousins, dads, moms, grandparents, step-brothers, step-sisters, etc...) FOR ALL OF THE PERVERTS OUT THERE!!!! You have plenty of grown women to choose from or men...if you prefer, so you don't have to take a child's innocence and ruin their life.