Who are you to say what an autistic person should have. Have you ever heard of Temple Grandin who actually spoke at UNCW about how she learned to be a functioning member of society because of her love of cows/livestock? Don't know if you are a parent, grandparent or ever will be, but be careful what you say others shouldn't be able to do because you never know what is in store for your life. You might one day have a difficult situation or relative that you are desperate for some kind of help for!!!