and that leads to a more serious question, how could you have become involved with a person that you had to have realized right off the bat was so mentally deranged? Once it became apparent you should have exercised your second amendment rights by being able to defend yourself and your daughter, I'm sorry for your loss but I see a lot of women letting dangerous men into their lives and putting their kids at risk but wanting to blame others for the outcome, somewhere along the line there has to be some personal responsiblity.