Judging from your spellin it's easy to understand where your background lies, as far as paddling, judging from your statements it would be a lot better for your kids to get a little discipline at a young age than a murder rap at 16, and by the way, I got some fond memories of school discipline, from a slap on the hand to some good paddlings, but the one thing I never did was go home and tell my parents about them, or I still wouldn't be able to sit down, and looking back, I deserved everything I got.