That kind of behavior is not limited to "small barrier islands with antiquated roads". And the reason that Guest 10101 does not hear the people in their home, northern states being "anti-southern", because Southerners do not go up north and complain about the way they do things and expect the natives of those states to change everything to suit them. Most Southerners just want to be left alone. Unfortunately, that is a concept that a majority of northerners just do not grasp.
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