I can certainly understand why you and your family are so "terror-fried". It must be "terror-able" for such innocent people to always have to worry that the police are out to get them, and apparently, for no reason at all!
This must be a "terror-able" country for your family to live in.
Do not despair! The rest of us are ready to help you get away from all of this. Just post your name and address and we'll all anonymously (so that you won't have to take the time to write out thank-you notes) chip in and buy you one-way tickets to safer country. One with a nice safe dictator and a nice safe para-military force. Guys you'd probably be more comfortable hanging out with.
Have a nice trip!
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