I own my 3rd house. Married 22 years. Vacation every year, taking kids around, canada last year, disney before. I've been on my own since 17. Dad died mom moved. Invested in an investment company that DRAFT'S every month. Brand new house last year, new car. Tell me, what else do you have? Family you support? What I said was you have to do what you have to do. Take care of your CHILDREN...guess you don't have that...Oh, and I did just buy a golf cart for the kids. What to match that? Remember, if you die tomorrow your money means NOTHING!