I am sorry for the loss of these families but the ONLY way to get through this is to have a relationship with God and rely on him to help you through this tragedy because everything happens for a reason. The reason some of these comments are so bitter is because these people haven't accepted God and are not happy themselves and want noone else to be happy. It is so sad to know that people are like this. These families are in a depressing state right now and negative terms are not the way to deal with this matter.